If we acknowledge ourselves to be weak and unwise, to be living in poverty, and if we have a friend, a protector and benefactor who loves us and can do much for us, it is only natural that in time of need we would turn to him with a request to help us.  And the more he loves us the more eager he will be to hear out our requests and fulfill them, the more so if we express ourselves with trust and love.  Everyone knows how much pleasanter it is to assist a person who lays out his need with complete faith than one who is irresolute and doubtful: maybe you can't help, maybe you won't want to; or he begins to give advice: this isn't the kind of help I want, I want this-no other. The pure, spontaneous urge to help someone-a spark of our divine likeness-is extinguished by such distrust or selfish insistence, or we will help him out of a sense of duty, of necessity rather than desire.

Further: having a loving, powerful and wise friend and benefactor, we will turn to him not only with our needs but we will love him in return; we will try to express this love, to thank and praise him.

It is precisely in this way that a Christian relates to God.  We know that He loves us, each of us, each of His creatures, according to His word:

if a woman should even forget her children, yet I will not forget thee (Isaiah 49:15), and,

as St. John the Evangelist teaches us: Let us love God, because He first loved us (I John 4:19).

We know that He Who created heaven and earth, Who holds all by the power of His hand is All-powerful, Almighty, Omnipotent.   And we, Christians, turn to Him in prayer, entreating Him concerning all our needs; we bring before Him all the sorrows and dangers that befall us, doing so with complete faith and love, much greater even than a loving son towards his beloved and loving father; not burdening Him with our wants, which are often sinful and senseless, not demanding that He absolutely must send us this or that, but only weeping over our misfortunes and needs, and leaving their relief and fulfillment wholly to His all-good and all-wise will, being certain that He hears us.

As loving children, we not only make requests of God, we also thank Him for His countless blessings, and we praise Him, expressing thereby our love for Him, seeing in Him the fullness of all that is good in the universe.  A person with a mature Christian soul rejoices at each opportunity he has to pray, to express his love for God, just as a person in love relishes every chance to express his love for his beloved.   For this reason the Apostle Paul exhorts Christians:

Pray without ceasing (I Thessalonians. 5:17),

for this reason many monastics and pious laymen constantly say the Jesus Prayer throughout the day, a short prayer which one can repeat all the time, without tearing oneself away from one's work and daily activities.

The fundamental prayer for a Christian, the model for all prayer is the Lord's Prayer, which Christ Himself taught His disciples.  The Gospel says, One of His disciples said unto Him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples.

 And He said unto them, When ye pray, say, "Our Father, Who art in the heavens, Hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen."  (Luke 11:2; Matthew 6:9)

This prayer begins with an invocation of the Lord: "Our Father, Who Art in the Heavens."  Christ brought us the greatest possible joy, the greatest possible privilege: the right to call God our father, a right which people lost when they betrayed God, violating the commandment He gave.  We call God, "Father Who art in the heavens," not because God lives in heaven.  God is Spirit, He is "everywhere present", i.e., in heaven, on earth and in every place; heaven, which extends over all the earth, is a symbol of all that is highest, and as such symbolizes the throne of God.  So that in saying, "Our Father, Who art in the heavens," we are saying: Our Father, Who is above everyone and everything!

Then begin our appeals.  The first are the words, "Hallowed Be Thy name." Every loving son, in relation to a father who possesses every merit, has a burning desire that the name of his father become known to everyone and be glorified by everyone.  Here, the son ought to fear above all lest his father's reputation be damaged in any way on account of him, a son unworthy of such a father.  These are the feelings we express in relation to the Heavenly Father-God, in saying, "Hallowed be Thy name."  Holiness is a quality which incorporates all others.  Therefore, in the full sense of the word, only God can be holy, as the Church sings, "One is Holy, One is Lord..."  People can be holy only relatively, but the more they attain to such holiness, the more in them and through them the name of the Lord is glorified, just as praise given a good son always reflects upon his parents.  It is in this sense, that God's name may be glorified through us, that we make our first petition in the Lord's Prayer.

 "Thy Kingdom Come," we ask in the second petition.  The Kingdom of God is not meat and drink, but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit (Romans 14:17), explains the Apostle.  It is not physical relaxation and bodily pleasures that we must think about, if we are striving towards the Kingdom of God, but about those spiritual benefits of a clean conscience, i.e., righteousness, peace and joy, which the Holy Spirit abundantly bestows. The Kingdom of God will come in the fullness of its power and glory at the end of the ages, when the world will burn in the cleansing fire of God's judgment, and all those dead from ages past will be resurrected; when all lying, all filthiness, all wickedness which fill the world will come to an end, and when Christ and His perfect law will rule throughout the universe.  Each and every Christian soul ought to strive towards this appointed time, exclaiming together with the Apostle: Come quickly, Lord Jesus!

However, the Kingdom of God may be thought of not only as existing in some remote future, at the end of the ages.  With the coming of Christ it already manifest itself in His Church.  The Church contains everything that can be in the Kingdom of God, in all its fullness and immutability.   In the Kingdom of God, which will come after the end of the ages, we will not find anything which does not exist even now in the Church.  And in the Church there is nothing which will be subject to change or which will cease to be with the coming of Christ.  Of course, here we are speaking about the Church not as an organization, but about the Church as an internal, grace-filled organism, about the Church as the Body of Christ, to Whom we are all joined in the Mysteries and from Whom we separate ourselves as a result of sin, reuniting ourselves through repentance.  Christ spoke about this internal, ineffable life of our soul when He said, "The Kingdom of God is within you." (Luke 17:21)

And so, in saying, "Thy Kingdom come," we ask the Lord that His Kingdom reign in our souls through righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, and that this Kingdom of Christ would be revealed in all the world, that an end come to this oppressive time of falsehood and wickedness.

Translated from Besedi o Sviashchenom Pisanii i o Vere by Archbishop Nathaniel, Vol. II; Russian Orthodox Youth Committee, Baldwin Place, NY, 1991.